Posts Tagged ‘friendship’

No More Friends for Me

I have had enough! My New Year’s Resolution is not to bother trying to find and make new friends this year, as people just constantly disappoint me. They lie, cheat, steal and demean. I am totally happy to be on my own, strangely I do not feel as if I’m missing out on life as a result of my new decision. Forget friends and social life it costs too much money and it is shit.

Another Perfect Love Story

My best friend just texted me telling about the wonderful present her perfect boyfriend got her the for her birthday and how much they’re in love. I’m happy she’s happy, but I also hate the whole situation. Why can’t soulmates be through platonic friendships? It’s like this unwritten rule that when someone falls in love the best friend of said lovestruck victim is just supposed to meekly step aside, but how is that fair?

I’ve been through everything with her and the worst of it is her going “this doesnt change anything, we’ll always be just as close as ever.”  But that’s such blatant bullshit and we all know it. Love changes everything. It’s so fucking boring and conventional anyway. Another perfect love story. It makes me feel sick! Is that wrong?

She Was My Best Friend

My best mate who I have treated like my sister since we were in primary school spread rumours about me being a whore to everyone and made my fiance believe it. She got guys to call him up and say all sorts that what they had done to me and really dirty shit. I know all this because she admitted this to me at the end when everything had ended. She admitted she was jealous of me and couldn’t see me happy. How shallow is that? She even said she wanted to get me raped but no guy had the guts to do that because there all pussys. That hurt me the most.

I’ve been so hurt as well as heartbroken. We’re both 21 and my ex-bf was 23. I don’t blame him as much as I blame her. I’ve always helped her out in every situation. That includes money, letting her stay at mine when she had nowhere to go. I so want to get her back but at the same time I don’t want to get my hands dirty. What shall I do?

If you can live with your boyfriend being your ex, then why not your ex friend. Keep your heart, your hands and your mind clean.

On The Unbearable Lighness Of Being

It is sad when people you know, become people you knew. It is one of life’s tragedies when you meet someone that you know is meant to be, but due to unexpected circumstances and misunderstandings he/she becomes just someone you once knew. Or when you can walk right past someone that at one part in your life was a big part of your life. And how you used to be able to talk to them for hours about the little nothings in life and now you can barely look at them and all you’rer left with is that aching feeling in your soul.

I Want Cooler Friends

Why is it that the kind of people I seem to attract as friends are absolute geeks and social outcasts? I want friends who are fun to be around, hip, interesting and good looking. What am I doing wrong?

You don’t want a lot do you? Try make yourself interesting and let them come to you.