Two days ago I realised my dad was having an affair. He was taking me to a shop and said he’d wait in the car. I went back to the car to tell him it might take long. As I approached the car I realised he was on the phone, but as soon as he saw me he hid his phone. When I went back to the car the second time, a van was hiding me so he didn’t see me until I got to the door and he did the same thing but with a lot more haste. My mum has suspected him before and they have had major arguements over it. He seemed to start being faithful again but this incident just started my own suspicions again. I cried myself to sleep over it last night because I hate the fact that he’s not happy with my mum. There’s nothing she doesn’t do for him. So what do I do? Do I ask him? Do I tell my mum? Or do I ignore it and hope it goes away?
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My Daughter Hates Her Life
I hate my life! My 10-year-old daughter wrote that, and I feel totally helpless because I know it is all my fault. I know I drink too much and take drugs as well and now she hates herself thinking it’s her fault. She’s only 10 for God’s sake! She should be playing with dolls, not hating life, but I don’t know where to start sorting our lives out.
My Parents Make Me Lonely
My social life is a mess. I have lots of family, but I hardly speak to them for weeks, if not months, because of my parents. They seem to have feuds with both my paternal and maternal relatives, and they hardly speak to them or see them, and this has had a bad effect on me. I cannot stand my parents because they are always arguing with each other and other people, making our lives miserable in many ways. It is like living in a madhouse and it makes it impossible to have friends. I’m in college so I have to stay with them but I don’t know how to cope any longer.
If your parents have problems and you haven’t then that’s a good thing. Talk to your relatives and friends – true friends and relatives won’t judge you. Sorry, but some people stay together for the wrong reasons. One, if not both, are unhappy and you might want to find out why?
