Posts Tagged ‘boyfriend’
{ 6 April, 2009 @ 6:05 pm }
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{ Tags: boyfriend, my boyfriend doesn't know, The Truth Booth }
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I have made the concious decision to lead a double life in order to improve my standard of living. The first life is that of me with a steady boyfriend and a temporary 9-5 job that pays shit and I cant seem to get anything better at the moment as there are hardly any job opportunities. i live in London, everthing is expensive and I need to save a few thousand pounds quickly for a course which should enable me to get where I need to be jobwise.
The second secret life is just beginning. In the evenings and weekends I have spare time. In this spare time, when I’m not with my boyfriend, i earn money by entertaining men. Make of that what you will and you understand what I mean.
It makes me feel terrible as I hate the betrayal. I really want to tell him that I’m doing this but I think he’ll get really upset and finish with me. But to make it clear, I am only doing it so I can raise my course fees and will stop once I have done so.
What do you think I should do? I’m worried he will find out. Should I be straight? Or should I try my best to keep it to myself?
{ 22 March, 2009 @ 3:49 pm }
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{ Tags: boyfriend, is this as good as it gets?, relationships }
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I’ve moved out of London to live with my boyfriend. We’ve been together on and off for 5 years. I’m no saint. I’ve cheated on him a couple of times and I’ve been with other men in-between our break-ups. Despite this, throughout the years we’ve got back together.
On my part, I don’t want to be without him. I’m scared of being on my own and I’m used to being with him. I did try to leave him alone for a few months, but I had bad experiences with guys so I went back to him. He had the same experience with girls he went on dates with: he met some girls online, went out with a few, but it never worked out. So,we ended up together again. Still, after 5 years, I have my doubts about us. He’s a wonderful man and my best friend, though I don’t have much physical attraction to him. He doesn’t fire me up anymore and he doesn’t make the effort to look nice for me or work out etc.
Like I said, we moved away and it’s just him and me in the house we live in. I have no friends here, though I’ve made a couple from work, but I don’t like where we live. And it’s not just that. He’s not into going out or socialising or dancing. He loves his books, computer games and watching television. I take responsibility too. I’ve been in this new town for three months and I’m getting some money, but I have yet to really venture out and meet new people and I’m finding it hard to do. I’m thinking of moving back home to London and starting all over again.
I don’t want to make the effort with him in the bedroom anymore and being intimate with him doesn’t really appeal to me as much. There are so many issues to think about at the moment, and it’s like I need to tackle them one day at a time or something. Is this just a bad patch since we’ve moved to another city, or should I cut my losses and run? I have respect for my man, though I find it hard to be really honest with him, in light of my past indiscretions.
{ 18 February, 2009 @ 4:48 am }
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{ Tags: boyfriend, relationships, sex, sex was better with my ex }
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My ex was just amazing in bed and whenever my boyfriend and I make love I just can’t stop thinking about the fact that it was so much better with my ex. The passion was better, it was more spontaneous and fun and wild and absolute fireworks for both of us. I love my boyfriend, but will I ever have such good sex as I had with my ex? Am I never going to have a mind blowing orgasm again that will leave me tingling all over with joy? Is this it for me and my sex life?
This will happen when you’re on your second, third, or fourth because now you have a measure.
Well I’m sad that your ex is your ex, but life goes on so take time and put the past behind you. Let your experience be your teacher, now show your boyfriend how to be the best lover you’ve ever had.
{ 14 February, 2009 @ 2:44 am }
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{ Tags: boyfriend, HIV virus }
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My fella split with me out the blue a few weeks back and I could not get my head round why. I found out a few days ago that he is hiv+ and thinks he has been for some time. I now think he has tried to infect me on purpose as he assured me he was safe and that I was at no risk. I feel like he has tried to snatch my life though I won’t know my first test results till next week.
I just don’t understand how the man I loved could want to pass this virus on. I still care for the creep that has put me at this risk. How stupid am I loving a guy who tried to kill me?
How lucky we are that we have not malaria and other tropical diseases to test each and every one of us. This disease has an incubation period and I feel that time will bring aids closer to all of us. Let’s hope we get a cure quick because no one plays with aids in mind.
I pray your results are good and pray that you will still have the strength to keep loving this guy, because he will need all the love and care he can get.
{ 6 February, 2009 @ 7:19 pm }
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{ Tags: affection, boyfriend, love, relationships }
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I know my girlfriends would kill me for saying this. For them relying too much on someone is taboo, but I must confess I need some male affection.
I’m longing for someone to hold my hand and squeeze it when I’m getting cold. A lover who can make me shiver with pleasure on a very lazy Saturday morning and make me feel safe in his arms. A gentleman that takes me to the finer places in the world just to frame me in his conception of beauty. Who buys me a ring and puts his heart on the core. Who’s wishing for me to be the mother of his children. He’s the artist that seduces me with the melodic vibes of his being. He’s the teacher of the brand new happy me. He’s my best friend that keeps me from falling, that is there to ease my pain. He’s the one that is all around me and appreciates that I want to be his world. He’s the one that actually cares, who’s not afraid to smile at imperfection.
Is it possible to find some real affection from someone as genuine as that?
{ 25 December, 2008 @ 8:20 pm }
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{ Tags: addiction, boyfriend, boyfriend addicted to coke, cocaine, love, relationships }
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Please, please, please help me! I walked out on my boyfriend two weeks ago because he has become so involved with coke that I don’t recognise him anymore. His mum died just over a year ago and he is refusing to deal with it, he hasn’t been to visit her grave and still thinks she is alive. He’s in debt upto his eyeballs and has just lost his third job in a year.
I love this guy so much but can’t stand him anymore. Do I just walk away and forget him or do I remember the man he was and try to help? I know I can’t do anything for him until he realises he needs help but im so lost! He has spent the last two years making promises but I can’t stand being let down anymore. Since I walked out I haven’t heard a word from him, he’s ignoring my texts and calls and I’m at a loss as to what to do? I don’t even know how he feel’s about me, did he even ever love me or was I just there to entertain him? Please give me some advice?
{ 18 December, 2008 @ 1:47 pm }
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{ Tags: boyfriend, love, rejection, relationships, sex }
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Last night was one of the worst nights in my entire life. When I came home from work having finished late and being tired and worn out I just hoped for some kind of compensation for my suffering which is usually a spliff or a drink with my boyfriend and good sex after.
Everything seemed to be normal. We had a spliff, he kept watching his movie and did not seem to be interested in me. I wanted attention and started talking rubbish and playing with him but he got annoyed with me and that has never happened before. My lovely, kind, nice, caring, I-will-give-you-whatever-you-need-baby boyfriend got annoyed with me. When the film finished he just hugged me and were about to fall asleep and all I really wanted was sex. I was trying as hard as I could to arouse him, to awaken him and make him do what I wanted so much. But then it hit me! He doesn’t want to do it!
I was not quite myself and maybe my reaction was over the top. I simply started interrogating him about why he was behaving like that and he said: ”All I wanted was to have a spliff! I don’t want to have sex with you!” I understand that we have the right to say no but I also understand that there are different ways to deliver it to your partner. For all the years we’ve been together I have never rejected him. Even being extremely tired or not in the mood I’m always ready to give it to him. But here we go! The way he pushed me away yesterday was very offending. I can’t remember feeling so offended for a very long time!
After all that all I could think of was just running away from him as I suddenly was so full of hate towards him. I just took another cover and moved to the living room where I spent the whole night. Lying there I felt vey hurt and lonely, as if the entire world had collapsed into pieces in front of me. I guess this is how it feels to be in shock. I hit rock bottom. I was hoping he would come and say sorry as he did something so obviously wrong but he never did.
In the morning he didn’t look at me and did not say a word. I got ready and went to work. Here I am simply but painfully rejected for the first time in my life by the man I love. This is the story and I have no idea what to do about it.
Love is not about sex. Sex is sex and love is much deeper and more meaningful. I do hope you have taken time to talk to the man you love so much, and maybe now you don’t feel so rejected and disappointed. That’s life, sometimes we all feel rejected.
{ 16 December, 2008 @ 1:40 pm }
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{ Tags: boyfriend, Christmas presents }
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Please help! I have no idea what to get my boyfriend for Christmas. He’s in the early 50s and has everything he needs. I’ve been trying to find Take That tickets as he loves them, but they all seem to be sold out and now I’m stuck. All ideas welcome! Thank you x
Christmas is every day so spread it out.
{ 12 December, 2008 @ 1:33 pm }
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{ Tags: boyfriend, love, relationships, sex }
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I am a 25yr old female who has had only one boyfriend these past 5 years. I would love to try new things in bed and he seems a bit reluctant as he is quite conservative. I even find it hard to tell him what I want. For example, I’d love to swallow him when he orgasms and he doesn’t want me to. I have never done it before and have a fantasy about doing it. He seems to think girls wouldn’t like it and I am a little strange for wanting to. Do you think he thinks because I’m his girlfriend he can’t do “dirty” things with me?
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