I had a one night stand with a work colleague a few months back. It meant nothing then. This year we have been flirting, but suddenly he went cold. Why do I suddenly care? I can’t stop thinking about him but I don’t think I’m ready for anything serious. So why do I even care that he seems to have changed his mind?
Archive for The Truth Booth
Late for a Date?
I’m confused. I arranged to meet someone I’ve met online and they were late! As this was a first meet with several texts confirming time and place I was a bit miffed to say the least! On trust no pictures were exchanged so no they did not see me or ‘cancel” as I was a minger.
At 11mins past time arranged another text came to say they were 30mins away. Could not adam and eve it! Waited a bit more for ETA however was not impressed at all. 40 mins after appointed time I left. Am concerned should I have stayed to ‘meet and greet’ or as I decided to do piss off home and switch off my phone! Which would you have done?
Shall I Give Him Another Chance?
I am a bit confused with all what is going on in my life right now. I found myself in a reletionship with a lovely guy who has problems with communication (so do most of men as they say). We split up for the fist time and I allowed it to carry on after, giving it a chance. It didn’t work out after promises and a sweet talk, so we have broke up for the second time and this time for good.
We have moved on and dated and tried relationships with other people. After three months he has started again to contact me via text. Trying to convince me to meet to work things out, to try again and all that backed up with sweet words and promises. The problem arises when I find my heart going back to him. I know it is not the best idea as I was hurt by him twice alredy and really don’t want that again. It was too difficult to pull myself together before, but I also know he did not mean to hurt me, he did not mean for loads of things to happen.
I was asked to meet up and I agreed, only because I have decided to follow my heart. But my heart is soft and I just worry I will let myself be hurt again. I just feel a bit confused, which should I choose to follow: my heart which says go and meet and give him yet another chance; or my mind which reminds me of what happened before and gives the signals not to do it again, as most likely I will end up hurt again. Yet I know I am a difficult woman to handle, to keep, and make happy. Only what I ask for is loyality, partnership and honesty. Full time involvment in plans.
It has been a long term relationship and I need not only words but also an action to back up the words. He can speak really nicely, but all these great promises and changes I never saw. Is this going to work? Is this yet another man who can’t stand the thought of being dumped over his own mistakes? Shall I give him another chance?
I Want to Have Children
I’m in a spin. I do not want to be in the relationship I am in anymore. I am desparate for children and it is not going to happen here. Throwing away a lot of history seems harsh and makes me feel guilty, but I do not want to hate her for denying me what I want.
Is it right to give up on a marriage just because of this? All the other problems I can deal with, but no children? It will hurt her so much. I don’t know what to do…
I Love Snooping of Facebook
I like checking out people on facebook. There’s nothing fishy going on, I am not a stalker, but I find it interesting to look at people’s lives. I check out all kinds of people, the ones I am close to, the ones I am not, the ones I hardly know, the ones I only met once or twice in my life.
You can’t blame me, as these people don’t even bother to make their profile protected. Literally every Tom, Dick and Harry can log onto their profile and snoop around. They talk to their friends, post msgs on the wall (amusing) put their pix there (interesting) , socialize, organize events, flirt, argue, try to be funny (not always succesful) and so on.
I know a lot of people do this snooping around. It’s actually very useful. If i get the impression that someone is an arsehole (based on their facebook profile) than i won’t bother getting to know them in real life. It’s like doing some private investigation, some background check. Once i even saved myself from humiliation, coz I checked out a guy’s profile (I really liked him) and saw that he was attached. Really useful tool, facebook is.
Anyway, my question is: are these people actually aware that their profile is accessible to everyone? If they are aware, are they just plain attention-seekers, or they really don’t give a toss who checks them out? Or are they showing off coz they think their life is so “amazing”? What do you think?
My Bf Doesn’t Know About My Double Life
I have made the concious decision to lead a double life in order to improve my standard of living. The first life is that of me with a steady boyfriend and a temporary 9-5 job that pays shit and I cant seem to get anything better at the moment as there are hardly any job opportunities. i live in London, everthing is expensive and I need to save a few thousand pounds quickly for a course which should enable me to get where I need to be jobwise.
The second secret life is just beginning. In the evenings and weekends I have spare time. In this spare time, when I’m not with my boyfriend, i earn money by entertaining men. Make of that what you will and you understand what I mean.
It makes me feel terrible as I hate the betrayal. I really want to tell him that I’m doing this but I think he’ll get really upset and finish with me. But to make it clear, I am only doing it so I can raise my course fees and will stop once I have done so.
What do you think I should do? I’m worried he will find out. Should I be straight? Or should I try my best to keep it to myself?
Why Is He Hiding His Porn?
The other night, I woke up to find my boyfriend wasn’t in bed with me, he was in the next room on the internet. As much as he tried to hide it, I found out he was visiting porn sites, in fact it looked like he was preparing to pull an all nighter. I felt almost cheated on. He went behind my back to watch it, and he was trying really hard to hide this from me.
I’ m no prude and I don’t get shocked by porn, I apprieciate men like it and will watch some from time to time and I even occasionally enjoy it myself. Why hide it from me like this, when I’m sexually open?
He said he couldn’t tell me because he was scared. I took him to sex shops to buy toys and other stuff, so I am not buying this excuse. I’ve been asking him how he feels when he watches it, and what makes good porn, but he’s avoiding all my questions. I just don’t understand why he would rather enjoy this without me…
Could anyone shed some light?
I Want a Husband
I want a husband! How come guys don’t want to get married these days? Every guy I meet is either not ready for commitment or thinks getting married isnt a big thing. Well, I think it is and would like to hear guys views on marriage so please get back to me.
Cyber Sex With My Ex
Ok had a fight with my fiancé and felt really shit, so texted my ex and started flirting with him. It felt so good, cheered me up and before I noticed we were having cybersex. I had forgotten how fit and sexy is his body compared to my guy who has let himself go since getting engaged. Now while sleeping with my fiancé I don’t get excited, he is crap in bed, love making is like a marathon for him. Every time we are in bed I am actually fantasizing of my ex and I like it. I feel a bit guilty though. Maybe I should not get married to a guy who’s body does not turn me on anymore. Scared that soon he will be disgusting for me. I know it is ok to fantasize from time to time but to do that all the time and dream of your ex sounds really bad. I love my fiancé but the image of my ex in the web cam really drives me crazy. Any advice?
