When a woman tells the truth she is creating the possibility for more truth around her.
~ Adrienne Rich ~
Archive for August, 2008
What Do Men Like?
I’ve been with my bf for over a year now and I guess he thinks I’m not that into sex. But I am. I just don’t know how to show him or what to do. I guess I lack confidence. What can I do that will impress him? What do men really really like?
The moon, the stars, cars and all wordly things. And girlfriends that ask us what we really really like.
How to Propose on an Empty Pocket
I want to give my girlfriend a day she will never forget on her birthday and I’d like to ask her to marry me. I don’t have a lot of money so what can I do? Any advice would be much appreciated!
For her birthday you should buy her something small and ask her if she would be your fiancee. Good luck!
I Love Him, But…
I met this fantastic man who is my ultimate soulmate. We both like the same music, food, wine, geeky interests – it’s like we have one mind. But… He warned me from the off that he’d make a lousy boyfriend, that he’s unreliable and can be a bit of a wanderer. He told me he just wanted to be pretty chilled out so I agreed, but I started falling for him. I couldn’t help it. So a couple of days ago, to stop myself from getting hurt, I finished it. I told him I just want to be friends. He said he really likes me and wants us to keep seeing each other. Now I am panicking was I too hasty? I do love him, but I can’t take that risk…
Good for you!
I Need Direction!
I came out of university with a pretty useless arts degree. I would like to keep studying towards a PhD but can’t afford it. I need to find something to do to make money enough to go back to uni, but I feel like I have no direction. Where do I go from here?
Truth According to Martin Luther King
I believe that unarmed truth and unconditional love will have the final word in reality. This is why right, temporarily defeated, is stronger than evil triumphant.
~ Martin Luther King ~
Consumed With Anger
I need liberation! I’ve got too much repressed anger to deal with and I feel like it’s killing me. How do I get my aggressions out without getting arrested?
You need to go exercise!
I Need a Wife!
For as long as I can remember people have been telling me I need a husband. A man to look after me. Then I met Norman and for some reason people didn’t like the fact that I was blissfully happy. But that’s not what I wanted to rant about today. I wanted to say that now I know for a fact what I believed through all those years is true: they were wrong! I don’t need a husband – I need a wife!
The way I work we need a woman to look after the kids, cook, clean, wash clothes, buy pressies, manage the diaries and all the other gazillion things a wifey is supposed to do. It’s either that or a PA, but I guess we’d need to make a lot more money for Norm to agree to get a PA for his PA… rofl
//Julie x
I Can’t Forgive You
My partner and I lived together for five years. We were saving up to get on the property ladder and we were talking about getting married. When I fell pregnant he said he couldn’t cope. He wanted me to terminate and, distraught, I did as I couldn’t cope with the idea of starting out as a single mum. But I couldn’t forgive him, so I broke up. A year has gone by but I still haven’t forgiven him. I can’t.
I Can’t Stop Eating
I am sure I have an eating disorder; I’m always on a diet, and I always fall off the bandwagon and end up stuffing my face. I can’t help myself. I’m so scared of getting big, I know exactly what I should and shouldn’t eat but I just can’t stick to a diet. It’s like I have this greed in me that says fuck it I’m going to eat it. I want it to stop because its driving me insane. I can’t stop thinking about food and I can’t stand being hungry. Sometimes I do really well on a diet but as soon as I have lost a stone I feel I have to distroy all the hard work I have done. What is wrong with me?
